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	<title>Comments on: You Are Not Your Thing</title>
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		<title>By: AngiePen</title>
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		<dc:creator>AngiePen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Aug 2007 03:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do the same thing on the fiction side.  [nod]  I don&#039;t bullshit about writing, ever.  I&#039;m never falsely supportive and there are a lot of stories I just don&#039;t comment on at all because I couldn&#039;t honestly give unmixed praise.  And if someone asks me to critique their story I make sure that&#039;s what they &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; want, because sometimes people asking for a critique (or a &quot;beta&quot; as it&#039;s called these days) are really just looking for praise and reassurance whether they&#039;re consciously aware of it or not.

I&#039;m mostly into fanfiction now but I got into critiquing back when while doing workshops with other writers who were either professionally published or trying to be.  It doesn&#039;t do any good to tell someone that something&#039;s just wonderful if an editor is likely to spit on it and send them a fifth-generation xerox rejection slip.  I&#039;m a brutally thorough critiquer and I&#039;ve offended a few people over the years who thought they&#039;d be getting a pat on the head and chocolate.  [shrug]  Writing&#039;s too important to me to feed people BS about it, and I agree with you that saying something&#039;s great when it&#039;s not isn&#039;t the act of a good friend, or even a decent person.

Angie
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do the same thing on the fiction side.  [nod]  I don&#8217;t bullshit about writing, ever.  I&#8217;m never falsely supportive and there are a lot of stories I just don&#8217;t comment on at all because I couldn&#8217;t honestly give unmixed praise.  And if someone asks me to critique their story I make sure that&#8217;s what they <i>really</i> want, because sometimes people asking for a critique (or a &#8220;beta&#8221; as it&#8217;s called these days) are really just looking for praise and reassurance whether they&#8217;re consciously aware of it or not.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m mostly into fanfiction now but I got into critiquing back when while doing workshops with other writers who were either professionally published or trying to be.  It doesn&#8217;t do any good to tell someone that something&#8217;s just wonderful if an editor is likely to spit on it and send them a fifth-generation xerox rejection slip.  I&#8217;m a brutally thorough critiquer and I&#8217;ve offended a few people over the years who thought they&#8217;d be getting a pat on the head and chocolate.  [shrug]  Writing&#8217;s too important to me to feed people BS about it, and I agree with you that saying something&#8217;s great when it&#8217;s not isn&#8217;t the act of a good friend, or even a decent person.</p>
<p>Angie</p>
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		<title>By: Rob "Flack" O'Hara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob "Flack" O'Hara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Aug 2007 17:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Which suddenly explains your silence toward my &quot;iDildo&quot; patent ...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Which suddenly explains your silence toward my &#8220;iDildo&#8221; patent &#8230;</p>
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